For virtually every portrait session, we hear the question: What should we wear? So, we have compiled our list of recommendations for you.

The purpose of portrait photography–even when on-location–is to direct attention to the people in the image, so attire selections should keep this goal in mind. Of course, attire will differ depending on the people, purpose, location, and season.

Shop at Home

  • Make time to review your closet(s) and think about what to wear. You likely have very nice things but may need to add one piece to complete an outfit.

Long Sleeves/Pants

  • Long sleeves are important. This is usually annoying if it’s warm, but it makes a big difference in the shoot. If your arms are exposed, the attention will go to that skin and not your face. Only children under the age of 5 should have exposed limbs.
  • 3/4 length sleeves work well, too.
  • If you can, layer long sleeves over a tank, so you can take a break from the heat.
  • The same goes for pants. Shorts or skirts should be knee length or longer. Capri pants work well.

Solid Friends

  • Prints, plaids, bold checks, and bold stripes are distracting and do not photograph well. Stick with solid colors or patterns that are subtle tone-on-tone.

Tonal Harmony

Matching Shades

  • For group portraits, you don’t all need to be in matching outfits. But you do need to match the quality of the color: all pastels, all jewel tones, or all primary colors.

Medium tones for caucasian skin

  • Bright colors can overpower caucasian skin tones. Red can make make a face look flushed.

Strong tones for Indian or black skin

  • Darker skin tones can more easily support brighter colors of clothing without the appearance of being washed out.

Not Quite White or Stay Rich

  • If you like the idea of everyone in crisp white shirts, go pastel. Bright whites can distract the viewer from your eyes and face. (Some East Coast photographers believe that pastels should be reserved for newborns or the beach. This is also a nice look for a waterfront session.)
  • When selecting between two, go with the richer/deeper shades of color.

Examples

  • In a multi-generational portrait of a family with fair skin: Tell everyone to wear khaki pants. Put the grandparents in cream shirts, the eldest child and his wife and kids in pastel blue, the middle child and her family in pastel yellow, and the youngest and his fiancé in pastel green.
  • OR, the same setup for a family with darker skin tones: Tell everyone to wear jeans. Put the grandparents in khaki shirts the eldest child and his wife and kids in royal blue, the middle child and her family in orange, and the youngest and his fiancé in kelly green.

Comfy Casual?

  • Casual can work nicely, too. Denim mixed with khaki makes for a nice neutral palette that will let your face shine brightly in a casual setting.

Jewelry and Accessories

  • Do not wear a watch. They catch light in the strangest of ways and are very time consuming to edit. Do not wear a watch. Really, we mean it. No watches.
  • Leave the sunglasses, wallet, purse, and phone at home or locked up in the car. If you have to bring some of these items, put them all in one bag that will stay near the camera during posing.
  • Keep other accessories (necklace, earrings, scarf, shoes-that-stand-out, etc.) down to a maximum of four.
  • Socks should match your pants.
  • Make sure pants have that nice break atop your shoes. You won’t be standing for every pose. Your pants should be long enough when seated.

Keep Kids Happy

If you have children in the shoot, consider their specific needs.

  • Any little girl who doesn’t yet understand how to sit lady-like needs to wear bloomers to match the dress. Solids are best.
  • Scratchy clothes make a lot of frowns.
  • Do they need snacks to keep them happy during the session? Are we allowed to offer them “light” candy like Smarties?
  • Can you bring noisy toys we can use to draw their attention to the lens of the camera?
  • How will you reward their good behavior?

Exceptions

Remember, too, there are very good reasons for exceptions to each rule. You may want grandpa’s pocket watch in the shoot, for example. Don’t let these guidelines be too restrictive. If you have questions, please ask.

Fun!

Finally, remember: this is all for FUN!

With more and more couples footing the bill for their own weddings, budgets have shifted from a “who pays for what” list to a “how much should we allocate” model.

Here are the traditional line items for your wedding budget. You’ll find this or similar recommendations in almost any issue of almost any wedding magazine.

  • 10% Wedding Attire
    dress, alterations, veil, lingerie, jewelry, shoes, hair/makeup, groom’s tux
  • 50% Reception
    site, catering, bar, cake
  • 10% Photography
    engagement session, bridal session, wedding/reception coverage, album, videography
  • 10% Flowers
    ceremony site, bouquets, boutonnieres, corsages, reception centerpieces
  • 10% Music
    ceremony, cocktail hour, reception
  • 4% Stationery
    save the date cards, invitation folios, calligraphy, postage, programs, escort cards, place cards, table cards, menus, favor tags, thank you notes
  • 6% Additional Expenses
    rings, attendants gifts, gifts for each other, marriage license, bridesmaids’ luncheon, welcome baskets, rehearsal dinner, wedding-day transportation, officiant honorarium, favors

Of course, some things may be more important to you than others, and you can adjust the percentages to your liking. Just be careful, however, that you don’t adjust them too far. Your guests will notice if you spend most of the wedding budget on your dress. You might look great, but that won’t overshadow your guests not having a good time.

If you are wondering what to wear for a Romantic Boudoir Session or for a steamy look at a Portrait Party, OneXtraPixel has a long list of lingerie websites. They are looking at them from a web design perspective, so there is a lot of inspiration!

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